Wordless Wednesday 01/31

5 Years of US Pond Hockey Championships
I can’t believe today would have marked my 6th consecutive year of helping out with the US Pond Hockey Championships (USPHC). However, due to my travel schedule this year I will be unable to help. Instead, I am getting ready to fly back to Minnesota this morning from a work trip. As sad as it is to break such a good streak and tradition, I figured I would reflect back on my prior times volunteering and how I came to be a volunteer 6 years ago.





Where it all Started for Me
Honestly, I stumbled across the USPHC kind of by accident. It was in my early time using Twitter and started following people and companies in the Twin Cities. One day I finally realized that a couple guys and a company I was following, kept talking about this event as the weather was getting colder. As it turns out the company was SportsNgin (now called SportsEngine), who was the major sponsor of the event and the guys who kept talking about it worked there and as luck would have it we're the co-founders of the company (Justin and Carson). I decided to do some reading about the event and found out it was a big deal and that it was happening in January. To top it off, they were looking for volunteers and I figured what better way to spend a day off work than being outside.So you decided to take a day off work and volunteer to stand on the ice for 8 hours in what could be really cold January weather?
Fair question, this probably piqued my interest more as I had just acquired the used materials for a backyard rink and was in the process of getting it ready for the cold. So as I was hearing about and seeing all of these pictures online of skating in the middle of a lake on an actual pond, I now wanted to see this event in person and watch some games.
Quick side story, I grew up in Iowa and have never played hockey in my life or really ice-skated in any prolonged amount of time. I used to rollerblade and play roller hockey in the street but nothing on the ice.
Side benefits of volunteering
For what started out to be a random event that I volunteered at, actually ended up being a place I meet a lot of interesting people. Some of these people were ones that I had interacted with on social media before and now that we were meeting face to face it was like we knew each other already. Also, the tournament brings in a bunch of people from all around the state of Minnesota, across the US, and even a couple countries, so it was always fun chatting with people to figure out where they came from and their background stories of playing hockey. That is one of the side benefits of volunteering in an area outside of your “normal” zone, you get to meet people you probably wouldn't have in your life. Every year since then I have enjoyed volunteering at the USPHC like the first. I continue to meet amazing people as well as keep in touch with some from previous years. Also, I get to spend a morning being outside on a big sheet of ice enjoying what nature has to offer (warm or cold). Through the years lots of efficiencies have been made in the Tournament operations as they have really upped their game, but at the core, it has stayed true to its roots of just getting people to play hockey outside as intended.
Next year...
When you start to think about it 5 years is a long time to do anything in my opinion. Even though I couldn't help out this year, I hope to make it to Nakomis and watch a couple of games. It really is an exciting event to watch in person and I haven't experienced anything quite like it.If you have made it this far and want to see what it looks like check out the US Pond Hockey Championships YouTube channel as they have some amazing videos from 2016 and 2017. I hope they put one out again this year as they get some amazing shots of the games and tournament. I am looking forward to hopefully helping out again next year as I always have a great time volunteering. Oh, and did I mention they give out some good hats. ?


Eat like locals.. Beef on Weck, good but super salty

Wordless Wednesday 01/24

Early morning sunrise over a great looking sheet of ice (US Pond Hockey Championships, Lake Nakomis, January 2017)
Just a little snow for the kids to walk home from the bus in 🌨️


Break the Twitch, The Book by Anthony Ongaro
I just finished reading **Break The Twitch: a practical guide to minimalism, intentional living & doing more of what matters by Anthony Ongaro** and it is the perfect book for anyone looking to make a change in your current habits. I had hoped to finish it right after it came out in December but got caught up in work stuff as I wanted to make sure I could really take time off around Christmas and New Years. Hindsight 20/20, it is probably a good thing I didn’t finish it in December as I would have cringed even more every time a box with specific markings on it arrived at my doorstep before the holidays.
Breaking the Twitch
One of the great things I like about this book is that it really sets the stage early on as the quote below is the first line of the introduction.
People don’t buy products—they buy better versions of themselves.<
The book in my mind gets separated into three different parts :
- The introduction of the book is where Anthony talks very specifically about how digging into his Amazon purchasing history he was able to figure out that he was buying so much stuff on a whim. He also briefly dissects some of the purchases he made and his rationale prior to the purchases compared to the actual outcome.
- The second part of the book is where he starts to give more detailed examples and ideas to help you the reader identify places in your life where you might be doing things impulsively. Also, how those impulses can create some really strong habits as he found out personally. Finally, he brings up how technology has maybe helped play a huge role in fostering the habits.
- The final part of the book really brings everything together and talks about strategies to take for breaking bad habits (or Twitches). Additionally, it talks about Minimalism and how that can help play a role in breaking and creating new habits.
Even though the book has the underlying true story of Anthony’s Amazon purchases, what he discovered helps provide specific examples of correcting and uncovering bad habits. So if you are you thinking of changing some of your habits this year, the book lays out some good approaches he took for Breaking the Twitch. As you can tell I really enjoyed this book and would recommend it to anyone. With that said, most of the stuff in the book isn’t rocket science, and the themes of what he is saying most people already know. In my opinion, the value or what sets this book apart is that he does a good job breaking his thoughts down into bits that can be easily tackled.
My Running Story…
Let’s be honest if I said we should run a 5k next month, and you haven’t run for over a year, your head might spin. At the time it would seem like such a hurdle to climb and you might not even know where to start because you’re too focused on the end result and not what could you do TODAY! Or as it is described in the book the Minimal Viable Action.
Minimally Viable Action—the smallest, most immediate step you can take that is doing what you want to do.
For my example, I was that person, and a couple of years ago I decided to just go out and run (in the dead of winter at that) with my non-GPS watch, my old pair of running shoes, and whatever other cold-weather workout clothes (or layers) I could find. I told myself I would run two blocks but after being out there I made it much further and then the next time I made it farther until having to walk. Each time I made it longer and sometimes faster until eventually it was just a habit and I was feeling healthier and had a good routine. When the month was up I realized I had already run a 5k and running another one wasn’t going to be an issue.
Some final thoughts…
Reading a book like this helps give you motivation and encouragement as you reflect on yourself. Knowing that you are not alone and others, though on different paths have probably been faced to walk down a similar path.
Remember that simplifying your life and designing a space that aligns with your intentions takes time—as the old adage goes, it is a journey, not a destination. - Anthony Ongaro, Break the Twitch
However, don’t just take my word for it since you can read some of the book before you buy, Anthony has posted the introduction chapter of his book on his site which you can find here.
To learn more about the book and see what others had to say check out Anthony’s book page on the Break the Twitch site here. If you want to see/follow along with more of Anthony’s work you can find him on Twitter @BreakTheTwitch, his website, and or his YouTube channel. I have been following along since 2016, where during my running example above I wrote about the Power of a Habit and linked so some of his older posts which helped motivate me at that time to push through.
What Twitches or habits have you noticed yourself having that you would like changed? I would love to hear from you in the comments below.
Wordless Wednesday 01/17

Air Travel in Real Life by Tripp and Tyler
Tripp and Tyler have nailed it again with another “In Real Life” video but this time tackling Air Travel in Real Life. Also, I couldn’t have watched this video at a better time as I just finished booking all my work travel for January and February.
If you enjoyed this video, check out their YouTube page where you can find more funny videos. Another video of theirs I posted a while back was titled “Conference call in Real Life”, which again is very spot on if you are prone to having conference calls during your week.
That was some deep snow… Now who is up for nighttime skate?


Nevada Boys Minnesota style… #backyardrink #hockey

The sometimes forgotten member of our family PJ, who is so small she blends in with stuffed animals and pillows.

Good way to start off the New Year by having a movie date night with my girls!

These kids are going to make me work this afternoon… But what a beautiful day it is today at 0°F #backyardrink #hockey

Fun weekend with the Fulkersons as we rang in the New Year’s together..

Figure skating Boo… ⛸️👻 #backyardrink #skating

It was a great day to enjoy the Minnesota outdoors #backyardrink #hockey #family

Loving these cold temps in MN for the rest of the week. Tarp is down, and water is filled… Let’s get some ice! 🧊🏒
WordPress.com vs WordPress.org
Have you ever wondered which WordPress platform is right for you? Maybe you are just curious what some of the differences (pros and cons) between WordPress.com and WordPress.org. I am going to walk you through my most recent thought process because after using WordPress.com for the past two years I am moving it back to the self-hosted WordPress.org.
I loved the ease of which WordPress.com just works and you don’t have to worry about anything in the back end. If your goal is to just start writing and see where it goes I would recommend it. There is no hosting provider to find, no installs, no plugins, no making sure you backup data, no worrying about indexing, no worrying about SEO optimization or anything. You just walk through the steps on WordPress.com and create a site. The only time you need to think a little bit more is if you are actually going to pay for a domain name or pay for some of the other upgrades.
Two years ago I wrote Wordpress.com or WordPress.org and Why?, which outlined at the time my thoughts and reasons of why I was moving my self-hosted WordPress.org site to WordPress.com. The big reason as I touched on before was I just wanted to Write/Post. I didn’t want to get caught up in worrying about other things because at that time I didn’t care. WordPress.com makes it super simple to Like, Comment, and Follow other blogs. It really can make a new Blogger feel good about the progress you are making and honestly who doesn’t like knowing that people have read their stuff.
However, all of those easy features come with limitations. You realize that you can’t use Google Analytics in the cheaper versions, add some custom code linking to other forms or email captures, further tweaking of how themes look and work. I think when you get to that point you really need to consider moving off of WordPress.com unless you want to pony up to the Business Version. Here is a quick rundown 2 years later of my pluses and minus of each:
Wordpress Breakdown
**** | WordPress.org | WordPress.com |
---|---|---|
Overview | Completely flexible from the start but requires finding a provider to host your site. | Focus on your beautiful content, and let us handle the rest. |
Hosting | Find a website host**, domain name, and perform all maintenance yourself (e.g., backups, security, upgrades, and optimizations). | Premium hosting and maintenance is taken care for all Plans (i.e., security, backups). Upgrade for custom domain names (e.g., StillThinking.me). |
Themes | Endless possibility of free and purchased themes with advanced features. Or create your own using CSS and PHP. | Hundreds of amazing themes optimized for any device. Upgrade for Unlimited Premium themes and advanced Customization. |
Support | WordPress.org community support forums for assistance. | Support is available in the community forums. Upgraded plans to have email and live chat access. |
Analytics | Powerful analytics using Google Analytics by adding custom code in your theme or installing a free or paid plugin. | Limited analytics with their own built-in stats. No Google Analytics capabilities. Upgrade to the Business Plan for Google Analytics integration. |
SEO | Install the best free or paid SEO plugins in order to unlock tools needed to maximize your SEO potential and achieve a higher Google search results. | Limited to no SEO control with most of their plans. Upgrade to the Business Plan for tools to maximize your SEO potential. |
Sharing | Install plugins in order to access popular features and customize to have complete control. Now you can enable WordPress likes for posts and comments via JetPack! The only limitation to WordPress.com is Post Tags are not searchable in WordPress.com Reader. |
Popular features standard but with limitations such as Social Media integration, Limited email subscribe lists (only popups via MailChimp), Likes and Comments integrated for all WordPress.com users, and Tags show up in WordPress Reader searches. |
** - Most website hosting providers usually feature 1-click WordPress installs that makes it that much easier now to just start writing!
Some final thoughts…
Now that my site has been completely transitioned over I have been starting to find a couple things that show up differently. However, the nice thing is most can be tweaked/fixed with the right amount of Google searching. I still feel really good about my decision as it has also allowed me more control in other initiatives that I am trying to work on like building a Still Thinking On the Line… newsletter!
I hope you found this article helpful in understanding some of the differences that I have noticed between both of them. There have obviously been other articles written about this in much greater detail on the pros and cons. Here are two of my favorites:
- WordPress.com and WordPress.org by Wordpress.com
- WordPress.com vs WordPress.org – Which is Better? by WPBeginner
If you have a WordPress.com site or have had one in the past, I would enjoy hearing your thoughts as well.
Happy Thanksgiving day run in my hometown while I watched the sunrise..

Lunch with my girls today.. Why wouldn’t you use chopsticks to eat Mac and Cheese 😂


