Wordless Wednesday 02/07

Ice sheets lake erie8168810284698831991. Massive Ice Sheets in Lake Erie (Flight from Detroit to Buffalo, January 2018)

Princess Jezzabella

A little over a week ago we had to make another tough decision in our house as our last dog Princess Jezzabella the Diva of Pink aka PJ was put down. It was honestly like deja vu all over again as my wife and I have talked about it since the passing of Tucker a year and a half ago. We honestly never thought PJ was going to survive without him but she proved us wrong. In fact, I feel like she changed her normal behavior of a dog who kept to herself into one wanting more attention and love from us than ever before.

PJ had been with us for 13 years, with another birthday knocking on the door this June 21st. She was the second of our “kids”, and she has lived in Michigan (where we got her from), Illinois and Minnesota. It was a really tough decision to make, one that we thought two years ago would have been easier than it really was. However, with the different version of PJ over the last couple of years becoming closer with our kids and the fact that we would then soon be a household with no pets for the first time in the last 15 years.

In these final weeks she was throwing up almost daily and her breathing was sounding labored. This was on top of her eyesight fading as well as her hearing is going as well. So she would often bark at us and get scared as people would move around the house or come near her. Not that we will ever know how much pain she was in but we could tell she was not enjoying life as she knew it anymore.

We believe our decision was right as we saw her health declining we didn’t want her to suffer from day to day. Also, selfishly we didn’t want her last days to be ones where we would be angry that she was throwing up all over and barking at us constantly.

As with our first dog, we wanted to be with her until the end and in our minds, that was again non-negotiable. We ended up using the same place that comes out to your house and performs the procedure with you being able to be right next to them.

Final Day

We all tried to spend as much time with PJ as we could on the final day. I took her for a walk in the morning which I normally never do. Since it was a Sunday, we didn’t have as many commitments during the afternoon, so we were able to spend more time with her but since the weather was cold out we were unable to just be outside most of the day. However, while grocery shopping in the morning, my youngest and I decided to pick up some Frosty Paws (Dog Ice Cream if you don’t know) as well as a stuffed toy to let her play within the afternoon. When we got home and my daughter gave her the stuffed toy and PJ just sniffed it right away but it didn't really phase her too much. So I walked over to the toy, picked it up and gave it a squeeze, to which the toy made a squeaking sound and then I tossed it. Instantly, PJ seemed young again as she attacked the toy. She instantly grabbed hold of it and started shaking it violently and tossing it around and then jumping on it again. You see for some reason PJ has always had this thing about stuffed animals with squeakers in it. She is so persistent about disabling the squeaker that she will shred the toy and remove all stuffing just to find the squeaker and destroy it. Once she accomplishes this, she will not really play with the toy again. We had fun watching her play with the new toy and eventually moved on to the Frosty Paws that she really enjoys. After that, it was getting late in the afternoon and I figured since I couldn’t take an evening walk with her that now was probably the best time. It felt so strange walking down the same path we had so many times over the last year and a half, knowing it would be the last time. It is not that I will never walk on that path as it leads to a Lending Library by our house, but I knew I would be walking with more purpose other times as I wouldn’t have a dog to take on this walk after today.

Finally around 5:20 we got the knock on the door and we knew that our time was finally up. It was a little harder this time as we knew what was going to happen and who knows PJ probably knew as well. I am glad that we could be with her the entire time as I still think it would be just as hard dropping her off someplace and then turning around and walking the other way.

PJ, you truly were an amazing dog and I will miss you dearly. You never were the super cuddle bunny that Tucker was but you stepped up and filled that void in a time we needed it most. In fact, maybe it was always in your nature but you just let Tucker fill that role as you liked to be the ferocious protector. Thanks again for the times you were there for me and making my life a little bit better/more exciting. You will always be remembered.

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I don’t know about anyone else but I feel like window washing in negative degree temps is a little puzzling 🤔…

Wordless Wednesday 01/31

Img 20180128 160314 01 015964049730386408747 *Man's Best Friend (Princess Jezzabella, the Diva of Pink, January 2018)*

5 Years of US Pond Hockey Championships

I can’t believe today would have marked my 6th consecutive year of helping out with the US Pond Hockey Championships (USPHC). However, due to my travel schedule this year I will be unable to help. Instead, I am getting ready to fly back to Minnesota this morning from a work trip. As sad as it is to break such a good streak and tradition, I figured I would reflect back on my prior times volunteering and how I came to be a volunteer 6 years ago.

2013 US Pond Hockey Championships Opening Day Sunrise 2014 US Pond Hockey Championships Opening Day Sunrise 2015 US Pond Hockey Championships Opening Day Sunrise 2016 US Pond Hockey Championships Opening Day Sunrise 2017 US Pond Hockey Championships Opening Day Sunrise

Where it all Started for Me

Honestly, I stumbled across the USPHC kind of by accident. It was in my early time using Twitter and started following people and companies in the Twin Cities. One day I finally realized that a couple guys and a company I was following, kept talking about this event as the weather was getting colder. As it turns out the company was SportsNgin (now called SportsEngine), who was the major sponsor of the event and the guys who kept talking about it worked there and as luck would have it we're the co-founders of the company (Justin and Carson). I decided to do some reading about the event and found out it was a big deal and that it was happening in January. To top it off, they were looking for volunteers and I figured what better way to spend a day off work than being outside.

So you decided to take a day off work and volunteer to stand on the ice for 8 hours in what could be really cold January weather?

Fair question, this probably piqued my interest more as I had just acquired the used materials for a backyard rink and was in the process of getting it ready for the cold. So as I was hearing about and seeing all of these pictures online of skating in the middle of a lake on an actual pond, I now wanted to see this event in person and watch some games.

Quick side story, I grew up in Iowa and have never played hockey in my life or really ice-skated in any prolonged amount of time. I used to rollerblade and play roller hockey in the street but nothing on the ice.

Side benefits of volunteering

For what started out to be a random event that I volunteered at, actually ended up being a place I meet a lot of interesting people. Some of these people were ones that I had interacted with on social media before and now that we were meeting face to face it was like we knew each other already. Also, the tournament brings in a bunch of people from all around the state of Minnesota, across the US, and even a couple countries, so it was always fun chatting with people to figure out where they came from and their background stories of playing hockey. That is one of the side benefits of volunteering in an area outside of your “normal” zone, you get to meet people you probably wouldn't have in your life. Every year since then I have enjoyed volunteering at the USPHC like the first. I continue to meet amazing people as well as keep in touch with some from previous years. Also, I get to spend a morning being outside on a big sheet of ice enjoying what nature has to offer (warm or cold). Through the years lots of efficiencies have been made in the Tournament operations as they have really upped their game, but at the core, it has stayed true to its roots of just getting people to play hockey outside as intended.

Next year...

When you start to think about it 5 years is a long time to do anything in my opinion. Even though I couldn't help out this year, I hope to make it to Nakomis and watch a couple of games. It really is an exciting event to watch in person and I haven't experienced anything quite like it.

If you have made it this far and want to see what it looks like check out the US Pond Hockey Championships YouTube channel as they have some amazing videos from 2016 and 2017. I hope they put one out again this year as they get some amazing shots of the games and tournament. I am looking forward to hopefully helping out again next year as I always have a great time volunteering. Oh, and did I mention they give out some good hats. ?

5 years of Volunteer Hats from the US Pond Hockey Championships Rinks are all ready to go!

Eat like locals.. Beef on Weck, good but super salty

Wordless Wednesday 01/24

Early morning sunrise over a great looking sheet of ice (US Pond Hockey Championships, Lake Nakomis, January 2017)

Just a little snow for the kids to walk home from the bus in 🌨️

Break the Twitch, The Book by Anthony Ongaro

I just finished reading **Break The Twitch: a practical guide to minimalism, intentional living & doing more of what matters by Anthony Ongaro** and it is the perfect book for anyone looking to make a change in your current habits.  I had hoped to finish it right after it came out in December but got caught up in work stuff as I wanted to make sure I could really take time off around Christmas and New Years.  Hindsight 20/20, it is probably a good thing I didn’t finish it in December as I would have cringed even more every time a box with specific markings on it arrived at my doorstep before the holidays.

Breaking the Twitch

One of the great things I like about this book is that it really sets the stage early on as the quote below is the first line of the introduction.

People don’t buy products—they buy better versions of themselves.<

The book in my mind gets separated into three different parts :

  • The introduction of the book is where Anthony talks very specifically about how digging into his Amazon purchasing history he was able to figure out that he was buying so much stuff on a whim. He also briefly dissects some of the purchases he made and his rationale prior to the purchases compared to the actual outcome.
  • The second part of the book is where he starts to give more detailed examples and ideas to help you the reader identify places in your life where you might be doing things impulsively. Also, how those impulses can create some really strong habits as he found out personally. Finally, he brings up how technology has maybe helped play a huge role in fostering the habits.
  • The final part of the book really brings everything together and talks about strategies to take for breaking bad habits (or Twitches). Additionally, it talks about Minimalism and how that can help play a role in breaking and creating new habits.

Even though the book has the underlying true story of Anthony’s Amazon purchases, what he discovered helps provide specific examples of correcting and uncovering bad habits. So if you are you thinking of changing some of your habits this year, the book lays out some good approaches he took for Breaking the Twitch. As you can tell I really enjoyed this book and would recommend it to anyone. With that said, most of the stuff in the book isn’t rocket science, and the themes of what he is saying most people already know. In my opinion, the value or what sets this book apart is that he does a good job breaking his thoughts down into bits that can be easily tackled.

My Running Story…

Let’s be honest if I said we should run a 5k next month, and you haven’t run for over a year, your head might spin. At the time it would seem like such a hurdle to climb and you might not even know where to start because you’re too focused on the end result and not what could you do TODAY! Or as it is described in the book the Minimal Viable Action.

Minimally Viable Action—the smallest, most immediate step you can take that is doing what you want to do.

For my example, I was that person, and a couple of years ago I decided to just go out and run (in the dead of winter at that) with my non-GPS watch, my old pair of running shoes, and whatever other cold-weather workout clothes (or layers) I could find. I told myself I would run two blocks but after being out there I made it much further and then the next time I made it farther until having to walk. Each time I made it longer and sometimes faster until eventually it was just a habit and I was feeling healthier and had a good routine. When the month was up I realized I had already run a 5k and running another one wasn’t going to be an issue.

Some final thoughts…

Reading a book like this helps give you motivation and encouragement as you reflect on yourself. Knowing that you are not alone and others, though on different paths have probably been faced to walk down a similar path.

Remember that simplifying your life and designing a space that aligns with your intentions takes time—as the old adage goes, it is a journey, not a destination. - Anthony Ongaro, Break the Twitch

However, don’t just take my word for it since you can read some of the book before you buy, Anthony has posted the introduction chapter of his book on his site which you can find here.

To learn more about the book and see what others had to say check out Anthony’s book page on the Break the Twitch site here. If you want to see/follow along with more of Anthony’s work you can find him on Twitter @BreakTheTwitch, his website,  and or his YouTube channel. I have been following along since 2016, where during my running example above I wrote about the Power of a Habit and linked so some of his older posts which helped motivate me at that time to push through.

What Twitches or habits have you noticed yourself having that you would like changed? I would love to hear from you in the comments below.

Wordless Wednesday 01/17

Snow covered sidewalk8387809693564249721 *Silence in the early morning air while [running](https://www.strava.com/activities/1358394530) through the freshly fallen snow.*

Air Travel in Real Life by Tripp and Tyler

Tripp and Tyler have nailed it again with another “In Real Life” video but this time tackling Air Travel in Real Life.  Also, I couldn’t have watched this video at a better time as I just finished booking all my work travel for January and February.

If you enjoyed this video, check out their YouTube page where you can find more funny videos.  Another video of theirs I posted a while back was titled “Conference call in Real Life”, which again is very spot on if you are prone to having conference calls during your week.

That was some deep snow… Now who is up for nighttime skate?

Nevada Boys Minnesota style… #backyardrink #hockey

The sometimes forgotten member of our family PJ, who is so small she blends in with stuffed animals and pillows.

Good way to start off the New Year by having a movie date night with my girls!

These kids are going to make me work this afternoon… But what a beautiful day it is today at 0°F #backyardrink #hockey

Fun weekend with the Fulkersons as we rang in the New Year’s together..

Figure skating Boo… ⛸️👻 #backyardrink #skating

It was a great day to enjoy the Minnesota outdoors #backyardrink #hockey #family

Loving these cold temps in MN for the rest of the week. Tarp is down, and water is filled… Let’s get some ice! 🧊🏒